Alzheimer Affecting Families

By Dolly | Jul 11, 2008

multi yellow flowersJuly 10, 2008

I have a friend and her grandmother has Alzheimer’s. One day we were talking about this sickness and how it affects everyone in the family emotionally. With Alzheimer’s, the loved one endures this illness and doesn’t even have any idea of the world around.

My friend expressed her feelings saying, “It breaks my heart every time I see my grandma; especially, when she doesn’t recognize me and I can’t help her in anyway.” On the other hand, however, when things are normal people look forward to enjoy the time spent with their loved one. As I pondered more on this thought it struck me. It is all about the mindset and preconditioning the mind.

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She Won’t Stop Doing Good

By Dolly | Jul 9, 2008

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On my first job when I worked in a retail store, they had overstock during Christmas. My co-worker let me purchase some items as low as fifty cents. It was perfect because I couldn’t afford to buy nice things for my cousins and relatives with the kind of money I was making.

I bought a lot, but still there was more left. Besides, I didn’t know if my teen cousins would like the things I picked out. So, I called my aunt and she came to the store right away. My co-worker wouldn’t let her enter the room and my aunt insisted on talking to her, herself. My aunt explained that she knows many families she can help if she is allowed to purchase the items. I was surprise when my co-worker agreed with a smile.

As we reached home, a four year old boy who lived across street came over. He had no socks and no jacket on in freezing weather. My aunt pulled out a new pair of socks and put a new jacket on him that she just bought from the retail store. She gave him the full package of socks and said, “Richard, I don’t want to see you without the socks and jacket on when you are playing outside.” By this time, these things were common to see in this home. Moreover, children loved hanging out in my aunt’s house. Sometimes, she had to ask them to go home and she would say, “Go home, you don’t live here.”

If all this was not enough, one day we received a call from the neighbors’ house. Richard’s mother stated that she had to take her husband to the hospital because he had a minor stroke. So she left her three children for my aunt to babysit. My aunt cooked some food and decided to leave it at their house before they returned home. When we entered their house it seemed as if it had never been cleaned. There was garbage everywhere! There was an open loaf of bread on the floor and cat litter next to it.

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Drinking Water

By Dolly | Jul 6, 2008

waterWhen it comes to water many of us would rather have a soda pop or juice. However, water is essential to the human body as it is made of 58% to 78% water depending on the body weight. Additionally, it also helps provide more oxygen to our brain when we drink water. It thins the blood which makes the blood flow more efficiently. It clears out toxins and flushes out any harmful chemicals in our body.

In the beginning, it was hard for me to drink water unless I was eating something. I tried putting bottles of water everywhere in the house so I would pick one up and drink. It did not work. Then I bought half a gallon of water and thought to myself that finishing this amount everyday should not be a problem. It wasn’t easy, but it was achievable.

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