Playing With Balloons
March 25, 2009
When we went to our friend’s 2 year old son’s birthday party, we were looking forward to meeting and mingling with every one of our new and old friends. As we reached and entered the hall, the aroma of the good food and the smiling faces welcomed us. The guys circled up in their own group and started talking business while the ladies admired each others’ pretty dresses.
As we were talking, my attention went off to the children playing. I just love watching children, how true they are in their expressions. In every good or bad thing they show it wholeheartedly, without holding anything back. Just like that, they were playing with those red, green, blue, and pink balloons. They were enjoying it so much like there was nothing on this earth more fun or adventurous. All of their hearts, minds, and strength were engaged in playing with these balloons. It was so precious to watch how they held these balloons to their little hearts when they were trying to catch their breath while running.
It reminded me of how as adults we are offered so much in life but have lost all the gratitude. We take many things for granted over time and lose the enjoyment. For example, if we are on our dream vacation, we waste most of the time thinking about our financial situation, taking many pictures until it becomes stressful, and rushing everything to see all the best places. Likewise, when the promotion position at work we always desired is finally granted, all we can think about is what tomorrow will bring, rather than enjoying today. Furthermore, we even press on for a more successful life.
Why can’t we focus on enjoying the simple things in life? Just like the children playing with the balloons. Wouldn’t it be nice to spend quality time with the growing children instead of chasing success all the time? How about lying on the cool grass daydreaming or looking at the clouds, even if you don’t get your dream vacation? What about taking pleasure in the rocking chair on the front porch to get away from the cares of life?
In addition, somewhere along the way, while growing older we forget to take time to enjoy life. We must not forget that this is the only life we have and when we start enjoying the little things in life, the big things will come naturally.
Alzheimer Affecting Families
July 10, 2008
I have a friend and her grandmother has Alzheimer’s. One day we were talking about this sickness and how it affects everyone in the family emotionally. With Alzheimer’s, the loved one endures this illness and doesn’t even have any idea of the world around.
My friend expressed her feelings saying, “It breaks my heart every time I see my grandma; especially, when she doesn’t recognize me and I can’t help her in anyway.” On the other hand, however, when things are normal people look forward to enjoy the time spent with their loved one. As I pondered more on this thought it struck me. It is all about the mindset and preconditioning the mind.
My Dear
Dear that special someone for me,
I know you are out there and it’s just a matter of time before we find each other. I am looking forward to that day with all my heart. I am preparing myself for each day.
Imagining, what you could be like? What would you look like? Are you tall, dark, and handsome or are you short, thick, cuddly, and still good-looking? No matter what, you are for me and I will love you regardless.
I look forward to grow old with you and celebrate good times for the rest of my life. As we learn things about each other everyday, we will share a friendship too. I look forward to that day, until then, I will be waiting for you. With open arms and heart full of love, only for you.
I wrote this letter, to show you someday. I don’t know if you will laugh, hold me, or we both laugh together? This come from my heart and it is presented to you. Love just for you…I am waiting for you…
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