How to Argue with your Boss?

By Dolly | Jun 5, 2008

Author's Picks, Psychology | 4 Comments

Arguing with your boss is not easy because the thought of getting fired is always lingering at the back of your mind. Yet, there are some steps that can help when it comes down to making your point in handling disagreements.

Holding on to common sense under pressure, use a simple concept to comfortably initiate a conversation. Be sure not to be angry when going to your boss’s office, as the mind may be clouded by your anger.

Clarify the problem and ask questions, for instance, “why would you do it that particular way?” It not only shows your interest in his idea, but it also gives him a chance to explain his side.

Additionally, when you have a problem that you want to take to your boss’s attention, you must be prepared for all the questions your boss may have afterwards. Besides, provide solutions and present them in a way that works positively for both sides. Read more »

Gossip and Human Behavior

By Dolly | Jun 5, 2008

Psychology | Comment

Human behavior often changes when someone hears others gossiping about them, which usually results in enragement. In contrast, when they gossip about someone else it makes them feel more comfortable because it only hides their own imperfections.

Mostly, gossip is used to entertain one’s thoughts or to release one’s own tensions by talking about others. For instance, two good friends of Monica still don’t know the reason for her breakup. They may try to reason with one another to find a clue and talk about the relationship between Monica and her boyfriend Jason. This leads to “juicy” gossip. Read more »

My life, Your life

By Dolly | Jun 5, 2008

Psychology | 2 Comments

May 30, 2008

When you are going through a problem or circumstance in life, the other person walking beside may seem like, “they have it too easy.” For a minute you start imagining being that other person, not knowing their personal situation.

Some people, for example, who are going through financial crisis wish they were rich like their friends or relatives. On the other hand, that friend or relative may be so unhappy, even while having all that money. They may wish for challenges to experience the journey of life with its struggles and rewards.